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3.16 Smoke Gets in Your Eyes 1960s

August 11, 2018 By Catherine Sevenau 7 Comments

Early 1960s • La Habra ~ Sequestered by the murky outline of the San Gabriel Mountains, Orange County had constant smog alerts, sometimes the air so awful they closed the schools. Everyone was told to stay inside; outside was smothered in a pea soup of haze so dense that not even a Santa Ana wind could blow it away.

The cigarette smoke enveloping our card games was worse than the pall outside. Carleen inhaled Pall Malls and Claudia smoked Salems.

Betty

Betty preferred Parliaments, or when she was feeling la de dah, Vogues, slim colored menthols at 75 cents a pack, a normal 25-cent pack considered beneath her. Her hair in brush rollers covered with a scarf tied around her chin and her black-lined eyes squinting to avoid the constant spiraling plume, she often had two lit at a time, one hanging from her Coty Red lips, the other burning away in the ashtray overflowing with lipstick-stained butts. She smoked two, three, sometimes four packs a day, blowing me perfect smoke rings whenever I asked.

In those days, everyone smoked: Mamie Eisenhower, Ricky and Lucy, John Wayne, Grace Kelly, Liberace, my sixth-grade teacher Mrs. Wilcox (she kept a bottle in her desk drawer, too), my mother, and my three sisters.

Cathy, June 1960

I was happiest playing cards with my sisters. The four of us sat at the dining table for hours, the little kids locked outside the front screen door to play in the neighborhood, the babies in playpens napping while we shuffled, cut, and dealt. Eyes rolling in unison, they drew to see who had to be my partner. When it was my turn to deal, they cursed every time they had to throw in their cards for a re-deal, not realizing until halfway through a hand I’d misdealt again. If they’d just let me deal slower, and not three at a time, it would have worked better. The only reason I got to play was that they needed a fourth for partner hearts, canasta, or pinochle. I didn’t interfere with their conversations, I laughed at their jokes (which were over my head), and ingratiated myself by serving Danola ham sandwiches on Melmac, refilling their coffee, and emptying their ashtrays.

Sometimes on weekends we’d be at it all day and all night, only taking breaks to feed the kids. Betty lost a babysitter once because she didn’t make it home until dawn.

“One more hand,” we’d say, “just one more hand.”

6th grade, Washington Jr. High, La Habra

To be continued…

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  1. Bonnie Branrley says

    August 12, 2018 at 12:41 pm

    No , that was my first and last cigarette!

    Reply
  2. Bonnie Brantley says

    August 11, 2018 at 9:22 pm

    Some guy driving down the street threw out a cigarette butt. My 8-year-old body ran right over and picked it up and took a puff. My sister screamed, “I am going to tell mama!” Her tiny skinny legs started running toward home as fast as she was able. Scared me and made me mad at the same time. I found a tin can and picked it up, running after her. When I got close enough to hit her I threw it. Hard. And it sailed right through the kitchen window! Double trouble! But I don’t remember getting into any trouble. Maybe my tears touched my mama’s heart.

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    • Catherine Sevenau says

      August 12, 2018 at 7:45 am

      That’s a great story! Did you still smoke?

      Reply
  3. Mini kelly says

    August 11, 2018 at 11:59 am

    So grateful to not smoke now. Been 32 years. Nasty habit.

    Reply
    • Catherine Sevenau says

      August 11, 2018 at 12:45 pm

      I smoked one cigarette and threw up all night. My eighteenth birthday.

      Reply
  4. Mark says

    August 11, 2018 at 11:11 am

    Dad used to smoke at the table after dinner and then while watchin TV in the evening. Years later he apologized to us for having exposed us to his “smog”.

    Reply
  5. Susan Price says

    August 11, 2018 at 10:04 am

    All this smoke in the air due to the fires reminded me of the smog of our childhood in LaHabra and Whittier… And my mother smoked too.

    Reply

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Web Serial: Front Matter

0.i Teller of Tales,  Family Line

0.ii Dedications, Billet-Doux, Credits

0.iii Prologue

Web Serial: Part I, Faded Snapshots

1.01 Part I, Faded Snapshots, Sonora

1.02 104 Green Street

1.03 A Chicken Named Blackie

1.04 Lucky Strike Girl

1.05 Summer Camping

1.06 Chico and Grandma Chatfield

1.07 Itty-Bitty Balls of Fluff

1.08 Might as Well be Hung for a Sheep

1.09 Brandi’s and Bingo

1.10 Wolf at the Door

1.11 Nothing But the Best

1.12 Larry’s New Diary, Jan 1947

1.13 Larry’s Diary, Feb-Mar 1947

1.14 Heathens and Hellions

1.15 Larry’s Diary, Apr-May 1947

1.16 Missive to Marceline

1.17 A California Thistle

1.18 We Love Milkshakes!

1.19 Larry’s Diary, Jun-Jul 1947

1.20 Larry’s Diary, Aug-Sep 1947

1.21 Larry’s Diary, Oct 1947

1.22 Brusha, Brusha, Brusha …

1.23 Larry’s Diary, Nov 1947

1.24 Larry’s Diary, Dec 1947

1.25 Larry’s Diary, Jan-Jul 1948

1.26 1948 Small Town Gossip

1.27 Plucked From the Womb

1.28 Death of Gordon Chatfield

1.29 Larry’s Diary, Mar 1949

1.30 Larry’s Diary, Apr 1949

1.31 Larry’s Diary, May 1949

1.32 Dad, God, and the Holy Ghost

1.33 Benedict Arnold & Eleanor Roosevelt

1.34 Larry’s Diary, Jun 1949

1.35 Larry’s Diary, Jul 1949

1.36 Holy Cards, Hell, and High Water

1.37 Larry’s Diary, Aug 1949

1.38 Buck Fever, Sep 1949

1.39 Larry’s Diary, Oct 1949

1.40 Larry’s Diary, Nov 1949

1.41 Larry’s Diary, Dec 1949

1.42 The Sight of Blood

1.43 Larry’s Diary, Apr 1950; Don’t Go

1.44 Larry’s Diary, May 1950

1.45 Larry’s Diary, Jun 1950

1.46 Larry’s Diary, July 1950

1.47 Summer 1950, Bounty Hunter

1.48 Larry’s Diary, Aug 1950

1.49 Larry’s Diary, Sep 1950

1.50 Larry’s Diary, Oct 1950

1.51 Larry’s Diary, Nov 1950

1.52 Larry’s Diary, Dec 1950

1.53 Larry’s Diary, Jan 1951

1.54 Larry’s Diary, Feb 1951

1.55 Larry’s Diary, Mar 1951

1.56 1951 • Popcorn Girl

1.57 Larry’s Diary, Apr 1951

1.58 Billet-doux from Mom

1.59 Larry’s Diary, May 1951

1.60 Larry’s Diary, Jun 1951

1.61 Larry’s Diary, Jul 1951

1.62 Not MY Mother

1.63 Larry’s Diary, Aug 1951

1.64 Larry’s Diary, Sep 1951

1.65 Larry’s Diary, Oct 1951

1.66 Larry’s Diary, Nov-Dec 1951

1.67 Larry’s Diary, Jan 1952

1.68 Larry’s Diary, Feb 1952

1.69 Larry’s Diary, Mar 1952

1.70 Larry’s Diary, Apr 1952

1.71 Umpteenth Time

1.72 Larry’s Diary, May 1952

1.73 Letter from Mom to Verda

1.74 Larry’s Diary, Jun 1952

1.75 Tennis and Tonsils

1.76 Larry’s Diary, Jul 1952

1.77 Larry’s Diary, Aug 1952

1.78 Larry’s Diary, Sep 1952

1.79 2nd Letter to Verda

1.80 Larry’s Diary, Oct-Nov 1952

1.81 Larry’s Diary, Dec 1952

1.82 Carleen & Chuck, 1952-53

1.83 Mom’s Letter to Nellie, Mar 1953

1.84 A Wedding and Graduation, 1953

1.85 Summer Solstice, 1953 (1)

1.86 Summer Solstice, 1953 (2)

1.87 Summer 1953, Minnesota

1.88 From Betty’s Best Friend

1.89 Pick-Up Stix, Sep 1953

1.90 Larry’s Diary, Misc Entries 1953

1.91 Private Matters, 1953-1954

Web Serial: Part II, Torn Pictures

2.01 Torn Pictures, San Jose 1954

2.02 Blackened Toast

2.03 Small Talk

2.04 Uncle George Day

2.05 Extra Prayers

2.06 Southern California

2.07 I Could Be Wrong

2.08 “Sprouse as in House”

2.09 Toy Soldiers

2.10 The Clue in the Diary 1954-1955

2.11 Canned Peas 1955

2.12 Jefferson Elementary

2.13 Mean Girls

2.14 Mr. Wonderful

2.14.1 From Larry to Gordon 1955

2.15 Gimme a Bromo

2.15.1 Grandma Nellie’s Demise 1956

2.16 Bless Me, Father

2.16.1 Thou Shalt Not Steal

2.17 Buttons and Bobbins

2.18 Perms

2.19 Conversations With God

2.20 Small Holy Cups

2.21 An 8×10 Glossy

2.22 Wedding Bells

2.23 High Finance

2.24 Hoity-Toity

2.25 The Great Pretender

2.26 Lovebirds

2.27 Year of Change 1956

2.28 Gaggle of Girlfriends 1957

2.29 Off to Paradise 1957

2.30 Manoa Valley

2.31 Needs Improvement

2.32 Worrisome Prayers

2.33 Come Hell or High Water

2.34 Christmas Eve

2.35 With Open Arms 1958

2.36 I Remember Bobby

2.37 Let. Me. Go.

2.38 What Did I Know?

2.39 Kakaroach

Web Serial: Part III, Home Movies

3.01 La Habra 1958

3.02 Orange Groves and Crackerboxes

3.03 Sierra Vista School 1958

3.04 Nana

3.05 A Mother’s Instinct 1959

3.06 My 1954 plain

3.07 Saving Grace

3.08 KRLA and KHJ

3.09 The Amana

3.10 Tie Pin and Cufflinks

3.11 Sunday Drives

3.12 Chutes and Ladders

3.13 Jesus, Mary, and Joseph

3.14 Waiting, Waiting, Waiting

3.15 Beach Camping

3.16 Smoke Gets in Your Eyes 1960s

3.17 Queen of Hearts

3.18 Gus the Helms Man

3.19 The Furies

3.20 Simon Legree

3.21 “Chu-uck”

3.22 “You Writin’ a Book?”

3.23 Purgatory

3.24 The Hillman Minx

3.25 “Listen, Dearie”

3.26 1644 Haight Street, 1960

3.27 Sweeney’s Candy Shop

3.28 A Longer Scorecard

3.29 The Sunset

3.30 It’s Not Fair!

3.31 Quit Gawking

3.32 Riffraff and Hippies

3.33 La Habra High 1961-1966 (part 1)

3.34 La Habra High (part 2)

3.35 Riverside Campground, Big Sur

3.36 Leaving the Hive

3.37 Summer in Europe

3.38 Homesick

3.39 “Oh Yeah?”

3.40 A Full Mass

3.41 Killing Time

3.42 Positively Haight Street

3.43 Rainbows and Red Devils

3.44 No Flowers

3.45 A Kind of Holiness

3.46 Sin and Prayer

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4.01 Unleashing the Flying Monkeys

4.02 Letters From Claudia

4.03 Letter from Liz

4.04 Elegy to My Father

4.05 My Sister Liz

4.06 I Must Have Lied

4.07 Final Migration

4.08 Cutty Sark and Carleen

4.09 Lore, Libel and Lies

4.10 Larry’s Later Life

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