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2.24 Hoity-Toity

May 1, 2018 By Catherine Sevenau 10 Comments

Irene 1956

1956 • San Francisco ~ When they married, Dad was renting a small place on Clayton Street in the Haight. He moved into Irene’s fancy two-story Victorian just two doors up from the flat where he first lived on Belvedere. Her place had soaring ceilings and velvet ottomans, a step up from the Formica dining table and single box spring he’d gotten accustomed to. He now lived amid carved antiques and Persian carpets, oil paintings and gilded mirrors, and Waterford crystal and filigree lamps. 

Carl Clemens Nov 1956

In November, I stayed three days with Dad and Irene. I was eight. I had to be careful not to walk fast or bump into anything. I was especially not to go into the cold storage room she had built between the living and dining rooms for her two walls of full-length minks, silver fox stoles, and black sable jackets with the end portion of built-in shelves from floor to ceiling, stacked with fancy round hat boxes. My only recollection of Irene was her catching me going through her steamer trunks stored in the basement, and the pungent odor of mothballs. I intended to simply look at her carefully packed away clothes. Well, maybe I did take some out and hold a couple of them up to me to see how they looked. Okay, so I tried one on. She was furious. As I was there three days too many anyway, I was no longer allowed to come and stay.

Irene was gracious to Larry and Marian but didn’t bother to hide her jealousy of her husband’s daughters. When Carleen and Chuck drove up for a weekend visit and had dinner at Alioto’s in Fisherman’s Wharf, Irene kept her back to Carleen at the bar. She never spoke to my sister the entire evening, didn’t even look at her. Not once.

to be continued…

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  1. Susan Dalberg says

    May 5, 2018 at 12:04 am

    Didn’t draw a better or worse mother card, girl. Amazing thing is dad didn’t say anything to her before he married about having these wonderful children!!!

    Reply
    • Catherine Sevenau says

      May 5, 2018 at 8:26 am

      He wasn’t much of a talker…

      Reply
  2. Linda Troolin says

    May 2, 2018 at 11:10 am

    Jealousy is such a damaging feeling.

    Reply
    • Catherine Sevenau says

      May 2, 2018 at 12:34 pm

      Especially when it gets splashed around.

      Reply
  3. Kay R says

    May 1, 2018 at 2:52 pm

    She was jealous of his daughters? That is strange. My grandfather had all his sisters minks. By the time we got our hands on them they were very old. We used them in dress up.

    Reply
    • Catherine Sevenau says

      May 1, 2018 at 3:11 pm

      Jealousy is a funny thing. Once it takes hold, it’s hard to undo. Appears she had a bad case of it.

      Reply
  4. Louise says

    May 1, 2018 at 10:08 am

    Oh, she sounds like a real pleasant person, NOT!

    Reply
    • Catherine Sevenau says

      May 1, 2018 at 10:15 am

      He had a tendency to marry women who reeled him in, hook, line, and sinker. Easy to do, speaking from my own experience.

      Reply
      • Barbara Jacobsen says

        May 1, 2018 at 7:28 pm

        I’ll be interested in seeing how long that marriage lasted!!

        Reply
        • Catherine Sevenau says

          May 2, 2018 at 8:04 am

          Stay tuned…

          Reply

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Web Serial: Front Matter

0.i Teller of Tales,  Family Line

0.ii Dedications, Billet-Doux, Credits

0.iii Prologue

Web Serial: Part I, Faded Snapshots

1.01 Part I, Faded Snapshots, Sonora

1.02 104 Green Street

1.03 A Chicken Named Blackie

1.04 Lucky Strike Girl

1.05 Summer Camping

1.06 Chico and Grandma Chatfield

1.07 Itty-Bitty Balls of Fluff

1.08 Might as Well be Hung for a Sheep

1.09 Brandi’s and Bingo

1.10 Wolf at the Door

1.11 Nothing But the Best

1.12 Larry’s New Diary, Jan 1947

1.13 Larry’s Diary, Feb-Mar 1947

1.14 Heathens and Hellions

1.15 Larry’s Diary, Apr-May 1947

1.16 Missive to Marceline

1.17 A California Thistle

1.18 We Love Milkshakes!

1.19 Larry’s Diary, Jun-Jul 1947

1.20 Larry’s Diary, Aug-Sep 1947

1.21 Larry’s Diary, Oct 1947

1.22 Brusha, Brusha, Brusha …

1.23 Larry’s Diary, Nov 1947

1.24 Larry’s Diary, Dec 1947

1.25 Larry’s Diary, Jan-Jul 1948

1.26 1948 Small Town Gossip

1.27 Plucked From the Womb

1.28 Death of Gordon Chatfield

1.29 Larry’s Diary, Mar 1949

1.30 Larry’s Diary, Apr 1949

1.31 Larry’s Diary, May 1949

1.32 Dad, God, and the Holy Ghost

1.33 Benedict Arnold & Eleanor Roosevelt

1.34 Larry’s Diary, Jun 1949

1.35 Larry’s Diary, Jul 1949

1.36 Holy Cards, Hell, and High Water

1.37 Larry’s Diary, Aug 1949

1.38 Buck Fever, Sep 1949

1.39 Larry’s Diary, Oct 1949

1.40 Larry’s Diary, Nov 1949

1.41 Larry’s Diary, Dec 1949

1.42 The Sight of Blood

1.43 Larry’s Diary, Apr 1950; Don’t Go

1.44 Larry’s Diary, May 1950

1.45 Larry’s Diary, Jun 1950

1.46 Larry’s Diary, July 1950

1.47 Summer 1950, Bounty Hunter

1.48 Larry’s Diary, Aug 1950

1.49 Larry’s Diary, Sep 1950

1.50 Larry’s Diary, Oct 1950

1.51 Larry’s Diary, Nov 1950

1.52 Larry’s Diary, Dec 1950

1.53 Larry’s Diary, Jan 1951

1.54 Larry’s Diary, Feb 1951

1.55 Larry’s Diary, Mar 1951

1.56 1951 • Popcorn Girl

1.57 Larry’s Diary, Apr 1951

1.58 Billet-doux from Mom

1.59 Larry’s Diary, May 1951

1.60 Larry’s Diary, Jun 1951

1.61 Larry’s Diary, Jul 1951

1.62 Not MY Mother

1.63 Larry’s Diary, Aug 1951

1.64 Larry’s Diary, Sep 1951

1.65 Larry’s Diary, Oct 1951

1.66 Larry’s Diary, Nov-Dec 1951

1.67 Larry’s Diary, Jan 1952

1.68 Larry’s Diary, Feb 1952

1.69 Larry’s Diary, Mar 1952

1.70 Larry’s Diary, Apr 1952

1.71 Umpteenth Time

1.72 Larry’s Diary, May 1952

1.73 Letter from Mom to Verda

1.74 Larry’s Diary, Jun 1952

1.75 Tennis and Tonsils

1.76 Larry’s Diary, Jul 1952

1.77 Larry’s Diary, Aug 1952

1.78 Larry’s Diary, Sep 1952

1.79 2nd Letter to Verda

1.80 Larry’s Diary, Oct-Nov 1952

1.81 Larry’s Diary, Dec 1952

1.82 Carleen & Chuck, 1952-53

1.83 Mom’s Letter to Nellie, Mar 1953

1.84 A Wedding and Graduation, 1953

1.85 Summer Solstice, 1953 (1)

1.86 Summer Solstice, 1953 (2)

1.87 Summer 1953, Minnesota

1.88 From Betty’s Best Friend

1.89 Pick-Up Stix, Sep 1953

1.90 Larry’s Diary, Misc Entries 1953

1.91 Private Matters, 1953-1954

Web Serial: Part II, Torn Pictures

2.01 Torn Pictures, San Jose 1954

2.02 Blackened Toast

2.03 Small Talk

2.04 Uncle George Day

2.05 Extra Prayers

2.06 Southern California

2.07 I Could Be Wrong

2.08 “Sprouse as in House”

2.09 Toy Soldiers

2.10 The Clue in the Diary 1954-1955

2.11 Canned Peas 1955

2.12 Jefferson Elementary

2.13 Mean Girls

2.14 Mr. Wonderful

2.14.1 From Larry to Gordon 1955

2.15 Gimme a Bromo

2.15.1 Grandma Nellie’s Demise 1956

2.16 Bless Me, Father

2.16.1 Thou Shalt Not Steal

2.17 Buttons and Bobbins

2.18 Perms

2.19 Conversations With God

2.20 Small Holy Cups

2.21 An 8×10 Glossy

2.22 Wedding Bells

2.23 High Finance

2.24 Hoity-Toity

2.25 The Great Pretender

2.26 Lovebirds

2.27 Year of Change 1956

2.28 Gaggle of Girlfriends 1957

2.29 Off to Paradise 1957

2.30 Manoa Valley

2.31 Needs Improvement

2.32 Worrisome Prayers

2.33 Come Hell or High Water

2.34 Christmas Eve

2.35 With Open Arms 1958

2.36 I Remember Bobby

2.37 Let. Me. Go.

2.38 What Did I Know?

2.39 Kakaroach

Web Serial: Part III, Home Movies

3.01 La Habra 1958

3.02 Orange Groves and Crackerboxes

3.03 Sierra Vista School 1958

3.04 Nana

3.05 A Mother’s Instinct 1959

3.06 My 1954 plain

3.07 Saving Grace

3.08 KRLA and KHJ

3.09 The Amana

3.10 Tie Pin and Cufflinks

3.11 Sunday Drives

3.12 Chutes and Ladders

3.13 Jesus, Mary, and Joseph

3.14 Waiting, Waiting, Waiting

3.15 Beach Camping

3.16 Smoke Gets in Your Eyes 1960s

3.17 Queen of Hearts

3.18 Gus the Helms Man

3.19 The Furies

3.20 Simon Legree

3.21 “Chu-uck”

3.22 “You Writin’ a Book?”

3.23 Purgatory

3.24 The Hillman Minx

3.25 “Listen, Dearie”

3.26 1644 Haight Street, 1960

3.27 Sweeney’s Candy Shop

3.28 A Longer Scorecard

3.29 The Sunset

3.30 It’s Not Fair!

3.31 Quit Gawking

3.32 Riffraff and Hippies

3.33 La Habra High 1961-1966 (part 1)

3.34 La Habra High (part 2)

3.35 Riverside Campground, Big Sur

3.36 Leaving the Hive

3.37 Summer in Europe

3.38 Homesick

3.39 “Oh Yeah?”

3.40 A Full Mass

3.41 Killing Time

3.42 Positively Haight Street

3.43 Rainbows and Red Devils

3.44 No Flowers

3.45 A Kind of Holiness

3.46 Sin and Prayer

Web Serial: Back Story

1.001 My Maternal Grandparents

1.002 Crazy Quilt

1.003 Canada, Cuba, or Bust

1.004 My Mother’s Father

1.005 Boucher Street, Chico

1.006 Sketches of Chatfield Clan

1.007 Sign of the Cross

1.008 Golden Eagle Cafe

1.009 Everything is a Gamble

1.015 Where Babies Come From

1.016 Letter from My Mother

1.017 The War Years

Web Serial: Post Memoir Sketches

4.01 Unleashing the Flying Monkeys

4.02 Letters From Claudia

4.03 Letter from Liz

4.04 Elegy to My Father

4.05 My Sister Liz

4.06 I Must Have Lied

4.07 Final Migration

4.08 Cutty Sark and Carleen

4.09 Lore, Libel and Lies

4.10 Larry’s Later Life

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