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2.24 Hoity-Toity

May 1, 2018 By Catherine Sevenau

Irene 1956

1956 • San Francisco ~ When they married, Dad was renting a small place on Clayton Street in the Haight. He moved into Irene’s fancy two-story Victorian just two doors up from the flat where he first lived on Belvedere. Her place had soaring ceilings and velvet ottomans, a step up from the Formica dining table and single box spring he’d gotten accustomed to. He now lived amid carved antiques and Persian carpets, oil paintings and gilded mirrors, and Waterford crystal and filigree lamps. 

Carl Clemens Nov 1956

In November, I stayed three days with Dad and Irene. I was eight. I had to be careful not to walk fast or bump into anything. I was especially not to go into the cold storage room she had built between the living and dining rooms for her two walls of full-length minks, silver fox stoles, and black sable jackets with the end portion of built-in shelves from floor to ceiling, stacked with fancy round hat boxes. My only recollection of Irene was her catching me going through her steamer trunks stored in the basement, and the pungent odor of mothballs. I intended to simply look at her carefully packed away clothes. Well, maybe I did take some out and hold a couple of them up to me to see how they looked. Okay, so I tried one on. She was furious. As I was there three days too many anyway, I was no longer allowed to come and stay.

Irene was gracious to Larry and Marian but didn’t bother to hide her jealousy of her husband’s daughters. When Carleen and Chuck drove up for a weekend visit and had dinner at Alioto’s in Fisherman’s Wharf, Irene kept her back to Carleen at the bar. She never spoke to my sister the entire evening, didn’t even look at her. Not once.

to be continued…

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  1. Susan Dalberg says

    May 5, 2018 at 12:04 am

    Didn’t draw a better or worse mother card, girl. Amazing thing is dad didn’t say anything to her before he married about having these wonderful children!!!

    • Catherine Sevenau says

      May 5, 2018 at 8:26 am

      He wasn’t much of a talker…

  2. Linda Troolin says

    May 2, 2018 at 11:10 am

    Jealousy is such a damaging feeling.

    • Catherine Sevenau says

      May 2, 2018 at 12:34 pm

      Especially when it gets splashed around.

  3. Kay R says

    May 1, 2018 at 2:52 pm

    She was jealous of his daughters? That is strange. My grandfather had all his sisters minks. By the time we got our hands on them they were very old. We used them in dress up.

    • Catherine Sevenau says

      May 1, 2018 at 3:11 pm

      Jealousy is a funny thing. Once it takes hold, it’s hard to undo. Appears she had a bad case of it.

  4. Louise says

    May 1, 2018 at 10:08 am

    Oh, she sounds like a real pleasant person, NOT!

    • Catherine Sevenau says

      May 1, 2018 at 10:15 am

      He had a tendency to marry women who reeled him in, hook, line, and sinker. Easy to do, speaking from my own experience.

      • Barbara Jacobsen says

        May 1, 2018 at 7:28 pm

        I’ll be interested in seeing how long that marriage lasted!!

        • Catherine Sevenau says

          May 2, 2018 at 8:04 am

          Stay tuned…

Through Any Given Door

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Through Any Given Door

  • Web Serial: Part I, Faded Snapshots
    • Complete Part I
    • 1. Front Matter
      • 0.i Teller of Tales, Family Line
      • 0.ii Ded, Billet-Doux, Credits, ToC
      • 0.iii Prologue
    • 2. Sonora 1943-1947
    • 3. Sonora 1948-1953
    • 4. History and Backstory
  • Web Serial: Part II, Torn Pictures
    • Complete Part II, sans photos
    • 1. San Jose, San Francisco 1954-1957
    • 2. Hawaii 1957-1958
  • Web Serial: Part III, Home Movies
    • Complete Part III, sans photos
    • La Habra, San Francisco, San Jose 1958-1968
    • Post Memoir Sketches
  • Through Any Given Door, Part I (in full)

Web Serial: Part II, Torn Pictures

2.01 Torn Pictures, San Jose 1954

2.02 Blackened Toast

2.03 Small Talk

2.04 Uncle George Day

2.05 Extra Prayers

2.06 Southern California

2.07 I Could Be Wrong

2.08 “Sprouse as in House”

2.09 Toy Soldiers

2.10 The Clue in the Diary 1954-1955

2.11 Canned Peas 1955

2.12 Jefferson Elementary

2.13 Mean Girls

2.14 Mr. Wonderful

2.14.1 From Larry to Gordon 1955

2.15 Gimme a Bromo

2.15.1 Grandma Nellie’s Demise 1956

2.16 Bless Me, Father

2.16.1 Thou Shalt Not Steal

2.17 Buttons and Bobbins

2.18 Perms

2.19 Conversations With God

2.20 Small Holy Cups

2.21 An 8×10 Glossy

2.22 Wedding Bells

2.23 High Finance

2.24 Hoity-Toity

2.25 The Great Pretender

2.26 Lovebirds

2.27 Year of Change 1956

2.28 Gaggle of Girlfriends 1957

2.29 Off to Paradise 1957

2.30 Manoa Valley

2.31 Needs Improvement

2.32 Worrisome Prayers

2.33 Come Hell or High Water

2.34 Christmas Eve

2.35 With Open Arms 1958

2.36 I Remember Bobby

2.37 Let. Me. Go.

2.38 What Did I Know?

2.39 Kakaroach

Through Any Given Door, Part II (in full)

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